Let’s debunk this myth right away! You can get pregnant the first time, and it doesn’t get more true than that. So the best way to live this experience spontaneously and with passion is to avoid unnecessary risks by choosing a protective method of contraception that enables you to live this unique life experience to the fullest. Knowing that you run no risk of unwanted pregnancy, and at the same time being able to protect your “gift” of fertility gives you a real chance to experience sex spontaneously, safely and calmly. It also creates trust and complicity with your boyfriend, which are important values to begin your sex life with.