To be clear, this is not a subject that should be joked about or taken lightly, especially when you are young. Why is it useful to be informed, and to talk about it with someone who is older? Because it is important to “shell out” all those doubts, everything that is unclear, especially if you are not used to talking about it with your family. Because those who are comfortable with their own sex life can help you understand its value. Because getting used to talking means not being afraid of sex. Why might you be afraid of sex? This is certainly possible if you are not able to understand that what your body and mind are experiencing is not something “dangerous,” but rather something new and normal! It’s just like the blossoming of a fragrant flower. What you don’t understand can only scare you if you are not prepared to face it and live it fully in the best way possible. Talking about it can help you understand the warning signs of a situation that might be risky for you. These signs should never be underestimated, even if they come from people that are seemingly “friendly” or that you should be able to trust. The record, unfortunately, has shown this, and women should be well informed and prepared to “sniff out” danger. But at the same time they should be able to live their sexual lives with the people they really love. Love is a wonderful experience if it comes with respect.
